Vocabulary for today’s third grader

A few months ago our oldest son, Big Bro, asked why he didn’t have any stepbrothers. He didn’t think it was fair that he only had one mom and dad and no “extra” family members.

The outburst took me a bit by surprise. I didn’t know if I should be apologizing to him that his father and I have decided that whatever it took, we were going to make our family work. Or if I should be chastising him for taking our family for granted. Well, I went with option c: I told him how lucky he was to have a family of people that loved him, no matter what.

I was wondering where all of this came from then, but now I have an idea. My son just brought home some vocabulary words and work that he did last week. The lesson was titled,”Me and My Family,” but the four vocabulary words were: family, divorce, values and sibling.


Out of all the words that could be used to describe family, divorce is in the top four? Perhaps this is part of the problem with today’s society? Maybe if we start giving children outs at such a young age, it just becomes second nature.

Well, I was a little proud in the fact that Big Bro didn’t know how to use the word “divorce” in a sentence. I know he knows what it means, but it’s not part of our daily vocabulary, and I’m not planning on using that word regularly. It cost him 3 points on his paper, but it was the only one he got wrong on the whole lesson.

I’m thinking that maybe he should have got extra credit.

4 thoughts on “Vocabulary for today’s third grader

  1. Divorce is Not a family value, but sometimes a necessity. I also know they are Not an easy out. If only Marriage had a 3 & 1/2 year prerequisite & cost a small fortune then maybe we wouldn’t have so many divorces.
    Thanks for the story, though! Your boys Are very lucky. When my daughter was that age & was asked to draw a “family” picture she drew Mom, her bros, & the dog. When asked where dad was, she said off working.

    • I agree Lisa, divorce IS sometimes a necessity. But I also found it funny that a lesson on Family Values included that as one of the four vocab words. It did give me a great opportunity to talk to him about it though, so for that I’m grateful. And I know what you mean about “family” drawings…that’s been a bit of a discussion lately, if you know what I mean.

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